BDSM Community Leonding

Hello there, Im in a pretty unique position and am hoping to find something quite specific. I am currently in a vanilla relationship with a man who works and travels all the time. Since he’s not all that interested in sex, we’ve decided to open up the relationship online .

My interests vary so much, but I believe in any relationship compromise on both sides can be necessary to find the right level of kink both partners are happy with, so you need to be willing to say how you feel or what you like?

I dont want to teach anymore. Theres a difference between me explaining what I like and were researching that together and me taking you by the hand for everything. I have a dominant personality (I am NOT dominant). I work in a field where I must be in charge and sure of myself.

For me, BDSM is not just a game … not just a bed thing … I want to live with a steadfast partner at my side who I want, who knows what he’s doing. I love and appreciate natural domination. I want to go to my limits and beyond. Am I what you are looking for